How to Take Life By The Reins 

1. Make a list of your goals

2. Exercise regularly

3. Eat healthy

4. Sleep enough

5. Learn every day

6. Meet new people

7. Try new things

8. Go to new places

Travelling is a great to improve your life

9. Invest in yourself

10. Help people grow 

11. Appreciate life

Many of these are parts of the way to get energy, which is necessary to take control of your life.